Be Heard: Learn to Become an Assertive Communicator!

In this class we will learn the 3 basic styles of communication. Passive communication, aggressive communication, and assertive communication. I will break these down into simple terms for students to understand. A turtle will represent the passive communicator, a tiger the aggressive communicator, and a wise owl the assertive communicator.  

We will learn the importance of being an assertive communicator and identify ways to change our communication style to assertive, such as how to use "I" statements instead of "you" statements. We will identify feelings that often get mistaken for anger such as embarrassment or worry. 

Assertiveness is a way to communicate feelings, thoughts, and opinions in a respectful, clear manner. Although assertiveness is a skill that does not come naturally to most of us, it can and should be taught. The younger we start learning to communicate assertively the easier this communication style will stick in our brains. Assertive communication is important for students to learn how to stand up for themselves, build confidence, build resilience, and set healthy boundaries for themselves. 

Children who are assertive communicators are more likely to be able to identify their own feelings, speak up for themselves, avoid and respond to bullying, say "no" without feeling guilty, have high self esteem, and feel in control.

***Effective communication skills help us be successful. It's never too early to learn how to be an assertive communicator! I use PowerPoint to teach the class, try to incorporate humor, ask kids to participate in discussion, relate the class topic to their lives, and show a few real life examples to keep kids engaged!***